If all else fails, collect your answers to the other suggestions
in this category, and post your question to the VNC Mailing List.
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Please note...you'll look a little ridiculous if you ask a question
on that list that's already covered on this site. Not that it's not
your perogative to look ridiculous if you want to, of course, I'm
just saying...